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I am racially Italian-American & African-American.  I am a biracial, self-identifying, culturally & ethnically black American woman living in the segregated Midwest.  I grew up in Detroit, one of the most segregated cities in America. I am often mistaken for being Latina-American & one time, white.  Outside of the U.S. in countries as varied as […]

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rhysies eyes

Around this time last year, I made the mistake of putting off enrolling Rhysie in 3′s pre-school for the Fall.  When the Fall rolled around I couldn’t find a single school that would take him except the pricey private schools.  Man, that was an oversight.  All year, Rhysie’s asked when he gets to go to […]

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photo-205

Earlier today, I begun planning out my 2013 plans, dreams & B.H.A.G.’s.  (Big, hairy, audacious goals).  I made a date with Ransom at Target to do so… I believe an annual review of the previous year with a solid plan for the next is vitally important behavior for those of us wanting to live graceful, […]

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Dave & I Aug. 2012

You guys, things have been so good lately.  Not pie-in-the-sky, but better. Even when things are going badly, the slightest bit of ‘better’ is an amazing feeling.  That’s where I’m at.  Better.  Not my best, but better. First of all, my health is better.  I wasn’t sick or anything, unless you include my sugar addiction, […]

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grace prep

Another round of What I Wore Wednesday + friends. Here’s a ‘little miss preppy’ look that is really not “me” at all… …but I decided to rock it anyway. Navy blue pants – Old Navy, Yellow/white striped shirt – Target, camel belt – thrifted, sandals, -$3 Kohl’s clearance, scarf – a gift from my MOST […]

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My Instagram(ed) life… We took the boys to a race for health sponsored by the Y.  I’m pretty sure it was meant to help fight childhood obesity…only none of the kids there were actually obese. #Ironical There was a giant unsupervised bouncy thing and I’m not even kidding the kids were going wild, it was […]

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Hello Friends!  I’m not sure if I’m back to blogging yet, but I’ve got a little something to say today… To say that I’ve thought A LOT about writing lately is the biggest understatement since someone said Y2K was going to be no big deal at all.  Really, it was no deal, let alone a […]

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sad animal movies

Raised in the esoteric eighties like me? Did you ever watch that insanely depressing movie, Project X?  The Air Force uses monkey’s to test how much radiation they can handle.

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