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I am racially Italian-American & African-American.  I am a biracial, self-identifying, culturally & ethnically black American woman living in the segregated Midwest.  I grew up in Detroit, one of the most segregated cities in America. I am often mistaken for being Latina-American & one time, white.  Outside of the U.S. in countries as varied as […]

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Around this time last year, I made the mistake of putting off enrolling Rhysie in 3′s pre-school for the Fall.  When the Fall rolled around I couldn’t find a single school that would take him except the pricey private schools.  Man, that was an oversight.  All year, Rhysie’s asked when he gets to go to […]

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the boys snow castle

netizen |ˈnetəzən| noun a user of the Internet, esp. a habitual or avid one. ~ The one that explains why Feminism matters.  And even though “I came out” last week as a non-identifying Feminist I respect and agree with this postion. Feminism matters because there is still so much work to do. Feminism matters because […]

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Rhys crying

My guest post blog series When God Speaks {or doesn’t} will continue on for the next few days.  But for now, one of my own!  I’m over at A Deeper Story today, musing on the redeemed and unredeemed voice of our little King… ~ Be careful with me. That’s what my 3 yr. old, Rhys […]

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My little baby boy, Rhys is stuck in a rut.  You know the one.  My poor boy has fallen into the death trap that is allowing oneself to be defined by a mistake.  The little punkin made his mistake more than a month ago. Apparently Rhysie roughly sat on his beloved “Becca-Becca” a super cute […]

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Dave & I Aug. 2012

You guys, things have been so good lately.  Not pie-in-the-sky, but better. Even when things are going badly, the slightest bit of ‘better’ is an amazing feeling.  That’s where I’m at.  Better.  Not my best, but better. First of all, my health is better.  I wasn’t sick or anything, unless you include my sugar addiction, […]

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My Instagram(ed) life… We took the boys to a race for health sponsored by the Y.  I’m pretty sure it was meant to help fight childhood obesity…only none of the kids there were actually obese. #Ironical There was a giant unsupervised bouncy thing and I’m not even kidding the kids were going wild, it was […]

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Recently my little Rhysie-Bear, otherwise known around these parts as R2, or on Twitter as #OHR2! has been developing a teensy-tiny love of salt of which I must sadly take full credit for. 

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